Parenting Points Book 2

When a young child regresses after a big change—new baby, new school, move, divorce, a parent traveling more—it can feel like your kid woke up and chose chaos. The potty-trained child is suddenly “forgetting.” The independent sleeper wants you to sit on the floor like a loyal guard dog. The kid who could say “I’m mad” is now melting down because you opened the yogurt “wrong.” It’s tempting to think, We’re going backwards.  But regression usually isn’t backsliding—it’s your ch

Preparing your young child for a new baby can feel like you’re trying to announce a life-changing update to a tiny CEO who did not approve the merger. You’re excited, you’re nervous, and your child is over here thinking, Wait… you’re bringing home a new roommate who cries and can’t even share? A helpful starting point: skip the “You’re the big helper!” hype. Not because helping is bad, but because pressure can be. When kids hear “big helper,” they may think, Now I’m responsib

Public meltdowns are parenting’s unpaid internship: high pressure, zero training, and everyone watching like it’s a live theater performance. First, take a breath and remind yourself—your child isn’t giving you a hard time, they’re having  a hard time. Also, the people staring? They’re either judging (not your problem) or remembering their own disaster with their child last week. Start with prevention that doesn’t feel like “planning a military operation.” Before you go in, d

Young kids have a special talent: they can ask the most awkward questions at the loudest volume in the most public place. You’re in the grocery store checkout line and suddenly hear, “Why does that man have boobs?” or “How does the baby get in your tummy?” and your soul briefly leaves your body. If this is you, welcome. You’re not failing—you’re parenting a curious human with zero filter. The good news is you don’t need a perfect speech. You just need calm, simple honesty. Wh

Sleep for young children is a little like owning a cat: you love them dearly, but they’re fully willing to wake you at 2:17 a.m. for reasons that make no sense in daylight. Night wakings and bedtime fears are incredibly common, especially between ages 2–8. However, don’t automatically assume you have “created a bad habit” or that your child is broken. It usually means their brain is doing normal kid-brain things—processing, practicing, and sometimes panicking over the shadow

The parent phone problem is sneaky because it doesn’t start as “I choose my screen over my kid.” It starts as “I’ll just answer this text real quick,” while your child is telling you something incredibly important like, “I saw a worm go down that hole,” and you’re halfway listening with the emotional availability of a distracted teenager. We all understand the importance of phones in today’s world. They’re our calendar, camera, GPS, grocery list, and emergency adult conversat

Helping your child make friends can feel oddly high-stakes—like you’re trying to broker tiny diplomatic relationships over juice and crackers. But here’s the good news: making friends is a skill, not a personality trait. Some kids are instant joiners. Others need a warm-up lap (or five). Both are normal. Start with playdates that are set up for success. Think short, familiar, and predictable. For most, one kid at a time beats a large group free-for-all. Have an activity avail

I used to think my job as a parent was to help my kid “come out of their shell.” Then I realized… my kid wasn’t in a shell. They were in quality control . They like to observe first, collect data, and decide if the room is safe before they participate. Basically, they’re a tiny introvert with standards—and honestly, I respect it. The problem was me . I’d get nervous in social situations and start doing that parent thing where we narrate too much and cheerlead too hard. “Go sa

Let me save you some stress: when your kid refuses to share, it’s not a character flaw—it’s a developmental moment. I know it doesn’t feel that way when they’re clutching a toy like it’s a priceless artifact and yelling “MINE!” while you’re doing that polite parent smile that says, Everything’s fine, I’m not sweating at all. Here’s the shift I want you to make: the real goal behind sharing isn’t raising a tiny saint who hands over everything on demand. The real goal is help

Supporting a sensory-sensitive child can feel like living with a tiny smoke detector that’s also a food critic and a fabric inspector. The scratchy tag in the shirt? A betrayal. The cafeteria noise? Basically a jet engine. The “creamy” pasta sauce? Suspicious. And crowds? Too many elbows, too many smells, too many everything. First thing : your child isn’t being dramatic. Their nervous system is doing its job a little too  enthusiastically. Sensory overload can be real but it